Jumatatu, 2 Machi 2015

SEMINAR FOR PURPOSES OF LIFE








SEMINAR FOR PURPOSES OF LIFE

STUDY: OBJECTIVES OF FAMILY
ECCLESIASTES: MR. BUSARA
CHURCH OF T.A.G - NYAMALANGO, Mwanza. TANZANIA.

Matthew 19:10 says that if a wife and your husband has not recommended marry. Before you enter into a marriage that is spiritual must start all processes follow the Christian faith as the man who saved. Before being signed in to seek knowledge about sexual matters or you will hate the marriage.
This lesson is divided into four components namely: -
A) Introduction
B) The role of husband
C) The role of wife
D) The role of the child

BACKGROUND
1.God created man and a woman for Atonement had intended to start a family. Genesis 1: 26-27 is shown after the creation God instituted human accrual principle. Here God allow accrual principle (principle of multiplication) in every sphere of life image reproduction, business, work, etc. If you decide to become a producer will get benefits. Jesus said branch bears no useful cut and burnt into fire. Making profits is valid for every Christian and not a sin or wrong. When you fail to produce God sees as you are not serious and are slack.
2. All we like because we are created in God's image, even though we differ only physical.
3. Authority control is a man and a woman. Genesis chapter one states and a rule all creatures in the sea, soil and land.
NOTE: When man sinned God punishes man but just when we are saved, we returned to the Garden of Eden and we changed the names
Called blessed and not cursed again.
4. Force was put into our production each. God said go and see to and cultivate the garden then you may harvest crops and fruits. All men, we have to let our wives work and do business, because all we have been given power production.
3. Both stayed open. Both were naked. Must be married to be more transparency in income and expenditure. Confidentiality destroy marriage but transparent.

ROLE OF HUSBANDS OR MAN IN HIS FAMILY AND MARRIAGE.
1 Peter 3: 7 Husbands, n the same way be considerate as you live with your wife…… Ephesians 5: 25-29 says whom he loves his wife loves himself.
1. The first duty of a man or a husband is to be the leader of the family. From the above Bible verse, Bible emphasizes the males use their minds properly answer the questions of why, where, how and whom can be answered after reasoning. It’s like men asked these questions so they should think carefully.
2. To honor his wife. Bible says that give honor your wife. In Africa we have challenges of the patriarchy. Wife is a rare person God hath given the husband so you should respect and treasured wife even if she has certain limitations. Tanzania has challenges the traditions whose undermined woman or wife. Build a man you respect any woman character.
3. Talk about the qualities and beauty of your wife. Call beautiful and even your community know.
4. The right of inheritance. Proverbs 13:22 A good father to let her have a heritage and even sons of sons (his grandchildren). Man or men have a responsibility to seek to raise funds and assets available for the wife, children and his grandchildren.
5. You shall love your wife. Love is caring wife. E.g. to give a gift. There is a saying that says that a good leader is someone who is a good listener. Another proverb also says you can give is not to love someone, but you cannot love someone without giving her anything.
6. Humility. Ephesians 5:21 says that we have should submit in stature of Christ. Is there a difference between meekness and humility? Gently not humility. God does not love the beat and be proud. Humility is the state of spirituality someone other than you. Humility is learned is not born with them. Simplicity is especially important in this marriage involves a husband and wife as well. To lead the people must be humble.
7. Give an example family needs food, shelter and clothing. 1 Timothy 5: 8 explains that if you fail to bring the needs of the family as a man or husband you are worse than an unbeliever (e.g. witch or sustainability). Prior to marry must see if you are able to take care of the family.

ROLE OF WIFE OR WOMAN IN HER MARRIAGE OR FAMILY.
Ephesians 5: 22-33 Obey your husband if you obeyed the lord for the husband is the head of the family as the lord is the head of the church. This submission is in everything and is the obedience of a very high standard.
1. The first duty of a wife is to obey her husband. Model Sara obeyed Abraham her husband as she obeyed the Lord. Example Abraham called his wife s sister in a foreign country, but Sara obeyed.
2. Respect your husband's leadership because he is the head and you as a wife is an assistant. Honor your husband is to recognize its existence.
3. Arrange the interior of the house symbolizes purity, catering and planning duties of his maids and also wake up early in the morning. Proverbs 31:15
4. Reliable and dependable. Proverbs 31:11 trustworthy in everything and trust must be approved does not come like this.
5. Do well. . Proverbs 31:12. Do not do evil for evil, but evil with good. Do not plan to retaliate. Proverbs 17:13 Evil shall not depart from your house. Remember marital strife affects to children.
6. Say good words. Proverbs 31: 26 rules of good exists in the tongue. Speak positive things in your home properly answered your husband. Learn to tell your husband his reputation at least not less than 15 seconds while you greet him by the hand when you looked pleased with radiant smile.
7. Protect your husband Jeremiah 31:22 woman has a sixth gate nervous because usually they are able to feel the danger even before it happened, husbands, and they should listen to her on various warnings are given in life.

ROLE OF A CHILD
a child is any person born of parents does not mean only those younger just so everyone is a child because he is born to parents. Ephesian 6: 1-3 Children honor their parents.
1. The first duty is to respect your spiritual parents. Here we look at our pastors even if you surpass education or money. Take care of your statements about God's servants. Learn how to adopt and shortcomings or mistakes of your spiritual leaders.
2. Obey your parents physically i.e. father and your mother. Do not talk your parents wrong. Show your love not only in words but in deeds as well.
3. Do not curse father and your mother. Proverbs 20:20 your burning lamp shall be put out of nowhere. This means that your stuff will rot example at work, studying from home. Proverbs 23:22 Listen ala yakow father not despise your mother when she is old.
4. Don’t steal your parents. Proverbs 28:24 one who steals property of his parents he is a partner of someone to him who destroys.
5. Do not waste your parents' property. Proverbs 19:26 He who robs his father and drives out his mother is a son who brings shame and disgrace. Let’s not drive our parents when we are married or girls for marriage.

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